Bullying can have serious effects on your child and needs to be stopped immediately. If you believe that your child is a victim of bullying your participation is critical to a successful outcome. We've provided suggestions below on how to help your child being bullied.
Open Communication
As parents it is difficult not to let our emotions get the best of us when we hear that someone is harming our child. However it is extremely important not to get upset when your child is talking to you about the situation. Stay calm and ask questions. You want to have a full understanding of the situation before you take action. You also want your child to feel comfortable talking to you about these types of issues.
Stand Up
Studies have been done that shows bullies will stop their harassing when someone tells them to stop in a strong assertive voice. It may not work with all bullies but it is important to teach your child to stand up to the bully. Teach the differences between aggressive and assertive voices, as well as body language. If staying "stop" with an assertive voice does not work, teach your child to find a teacher or an adult.
Take Action
If the bullying continues it may be time to talk with your child's teacher or principal. When speaking with the school make it clear that you want to help solve the issue. Your main concern is the well being of not only your child but all students.
Create Policy
Many schools already have an anti-bullying policy but if your child's school doesn't it is important that one be created. An anti bullying policy creates a plan of action and consequences if bullying occurs.
Socialize
If your child is being bullied there is a good chance that his/her self-esteem is down. It is important to show them that they can still be social outside of school in a safe environment. Arrange activities outside of school for them to participate in. Children who have friends are less likely to be bullying victims. It will also help take their mind off the negative effects of the bullying.
Get Help
Bullying can have serious physical and physiological effects on children. Parents should consider getting help from a counselor or a mental health provider to help the child deal with his/her issue.
Stick Together
Bullies like to target kids when they are alone. Urge your child to stick with at least one other kid at all times during school.
Cyber bullying
Today's technology has made cyber bullying increasing common among kids. If your child is being cyber bullied teach your child not to respond and to let you know. Many children fail to realize that by responding back they may be taking part in the bullying and whatever is written can be used against them.
Follow Up. Once the bullying situation is resolved the situation is far from over. It is a parent's job to continue to communicate with their child and know the signs of bullying so that if another issue arises, you'll be prepared.
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